This picture is unrelated to the post, but I wanted one that reflects the Paul we all know and love...
Paul came home from the hospital last Friday. He is being cared for by me and a hospice team that visits every few days. He is resting more comfortably here than he was at the hospital; most importantly, his pain is under control. We have a hospital bed set up in the dining room and I sleep on the couch in the living room so I am able to hear if Paul needs help during the night. The last few days he has been sleeping most of the time. When he is awake, he is often confused as to where he is and who is around him. One morning, I was "that girl they rescued with a helicopter," but the next I was "the best wife in the world" and "my dear, sweet wife." He quit eating while he was in the hospital, and doesn't drink much, either. Needless to say, his condition is declining.
Mom and Dad Parker spent a couple days this week helping out, and Lynn and Brent are coming tomorrow night and staying until Saturday. Mom and Dad Carling will be coming tomorrow to spend the day as well.
Paul's best friend from school drove up from Utah today. Parker didn't have school, due to a heating system failure at the high school, so he was able to sit and listen to Shane tell stories of the adventures that he and Paul had together as teenagers. It was cathartic for all of us.
There is not a better picture you could have posted of Paul...I have loved receiving post cards every season with pics of you and your crew....I want what you have with your husband and 5 boys...You two have had adventures that most people don't even dare to try. Paul is one of my favorite bros-in-law....his smile is contagious and his wit is undeniable...
ReplyDelete“This bridge will only take you halfway there, to those mysterious lands you long to see. Through gypsy camps and swirling Arab fair, and moonlit woods where unicorns run free. So come and walk awhile with me and share the twisting trails and wonderous worlds Ive known. But this bridge will only take you halfway there. The last few steps you have to take alone.” -Shel Silverstein
Hi, I'm Sherry's sister. I just wanted to say how amazingly strong you are. No one can know what you're feeling or going through unless they have been there. Thank heavens for our religion that we know we will be together forever!! What a comforting thought.
ReplyDeleteDon't woulda, coulda, shoulda. Remember the wonderful memories and know it will be a short time before you are with your wonderful husband, father, uncle, son, cousin, friend, brother etc..
Your family is in our prayers! So glad you have such a wonderful support system in your family and friends.
With comfort,
Shireen Steadman and Family